Shoaib akram
3 min readJul 2, 2024

What Mistakes One should avoid in Relationships!

Points that will help you to live in a healthy relationship

A relationship is not an agreement made by two people to live together!

Its choice, affection and Love that influence people to be together.

When someone says he/she is not in love with you anymore! believe them and let them go do not chase them.

When they spill the beans about a crush on another, trust them and resist the urge to take it to heart or hang around dreaming of a love story down the road.

When individuals demonstrate indifference towards you in moments of anger, it signifies a lack of inherent kindness. It is essential to acknowledge this trait and manage expectations regarding their consistent display of kindness, especially in times of need.

One should know this too!

When they tell you that they are confused agree with him or her and do not make excuses as these remarks are made by him or her after judging you. So if someone judges you in a relationship this means it will not last longer.

When someone says his or her desire to love you urge to let them know that it's their choice don't teach them and care about them!

If they say they're not up for a relationship, take a graceful step back. Don't grovel - you're a gem! Plus, setting boundaries shows them how it's done.

When they show you who exactly they are, stop visualizing their potential. Potentials ain’t reality!

When they consistently show you how inconsistent they can be with commitment, believe them.

If their words say love but their actions scream otherwise, trust their actions and give them the space to be.

The reality is, that folks will straight-up show you where you stand. The hints are like neon signs, but hey, we often brush them off, end up heartbroken, and declare, "Love? What love?" Love does exist. You’re only looking for it in the wrong people!

Live life happily in a relationship

Love, Respect, and Care are the key factors in a relationship and if one is missing you will have to suffer.

Relationship problems arise when you desire to be the person you want because he or she is not accepting of you how you are and how it is, so don't let others play with your feelings and emotions in the name of the relationship. Try to accept reality and live a happy, peaceful life.

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Shoaib akram

With a cup of coffee in hand and a plethora of words at my disposal, I delve into various subjects, resurfacing with valuable content that engages and motivates